This weekend I decided to do something that not many people will understand…I decided to let a few of my friendships go full circle- meaning embracing that point where there is no anger or no bad memories or bad blood between you and someone else. Some friends are those people who you drink with, party with, talk till the early hours of the morning with but within all these groups there are people that are good for you and there are those who never will be. So I let them just be who they are and then let myself face who they had become to me and without any sadness or regret I let this all go.
The point to this is evolution, adaptation... You need to let people hurt you- you cannot stop this. How do you forge a strong metal? Form the perfect diamond? Through pain, pressure and fire.
I often resent my past and forget that it is these fires and these people who helped me at 30 to know myself on every single level, the best and darkest places of my soul are known and accepted by me and that is a gift I am ready to treasure and run with.
So if you are one of these people…I thank you!
The point to this is evolution, adaptation... You need to let people hurt you- you cannot stop this. How do you forge a strong metal? Form the perfect diamond? Through pain, pressure and fire.
I often resent my past and forget that it is these fires and these people who helped me at 30 to know myself on every single level, the best and darkest places of my soul are known and accepted by me and that is a gift I am ready to treasure and run with.
So if you are one of these people…I thank you!