Don’t laugh, I have a wee obsession- I celeb stalk like everyone I think is great (vampire actors mainly) and came across an interview with Nina Dobrev’s bestie commenting on being questioned on Nina’s coping with Ian’s engagement, I adore her reply: “That’s not what our companionship is about. Sadly, that’s how it is recognized, but there is more to all of us. Men and women are not based on relationships. The full point has been true to your self and never losing your self in human relationships, whether romances or relationships”.
Ok so the grammar isn’t great but then again neither is mine and I am not judgey like that at all but her point is SO VALID.
We are so much more that the people around us or in our lives, I for one have allowed some pretty crappy people define me a few thousand times and once you let it happen once it is a lot harder to get out of I can assure you! What is worse is somewhere along the way you end up believing the crap they say about you! This takes an AGE to undo in your own mind. It is not fun or fair and you pretty much did it to yourself, which in itself is a real shocker!
Getting lost in other people is so easy and pretty much a fun thing to do. I am hyper and over the top but I adore people and can very quickly live to see the people who I call friends. The more drama there is the more drama I create and bam- a tornado of doom is ripping through your life! This can happen at work, at home and most often in a group of girls. I have lost so many friends based on other people perceptions that they openly allowed into their minds and that really hurts- some are more recent than others so it’s a bit fresh to go into detail about but at least I am not lost in their issues. I refuse to lose who I am- I took 30 long and hard ass years to get here!
I intend to own this biatch!
Ok so the grammar isn’t great but then again neither is mine and I am not judgey like that at all but her point is SO VALID.
We are so much more that the people around us or in our lives, I for one have allowed some pretty crappy people define me a few thousand times and once you let it happen once it is a lot harder to get out of I can assure you! What is worse is somewhere along the way you end up believing the crap they say about you! This takes an AGE to undo in your own mind. It is not fun or fair and you pretty much did it to yourself, which in itself is a real shocker!
Getting lost in other people is so easy and pretty much a fun thing to do. I am hyper and over the top but I adore people and can very quickly live to see the people who I call friends. The more drama there is the more drama I create and bam- a tornado of doom is ripping through your life! This can happen at work, at home and most often in a group of girls. I have lost so many friends based on other people perceptions that they openly allowed into their minds and that really hurts- some are more recent than others so it’s a bit fresh to go into detail about but at least I am not lost in their issues. I refuse to lose who I am- I took 30 long and hard ass years to get here!
I intend to own this biatch!